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Training: clarity? First of all ...

Hello everyone, well found.
Today I write this update with a priority thing to do when you want something clarity!

Many will have read in various books on pnl. Others will have read or seen on DVD and material relating to the Law 's Attraction. For those who wish to learn the 'argument on the law d' Attraction, on this blog in the right section dedicated to Ebook is the material with which to deepen.

In this blog certainly is also the subject, but as you can imagine, are only surface-treated and they certainly deserve study and also participate in live classes.
Law 's Attraction states that everything in ' universe is at our disposal .
We need to ask for it and expect that we are given. It may sound simple but it is.

fact every day we see some real "miracles " only that we are too preoccupied by things that are not so, not realizing it. A "miracle " is nothing more than "a change of perception." Or pay attention to all those good things that happen to us. Every day.

If we turn our thoughts from fear to 'love, all things change' and a moment " miracle" happens. To understand the miracle manifestation of something.
and the Law 's Attraction is closely linked to our thoughts and our feelings. It is very powerful and allow you to work there are some small steps forward. Here they are ...

1) Eliminate the negativity 'and focus on what you want.

What does this mean in practical terms? Simply focus on what we want . Stop to stay focused on everything that is wrong and stop telling all our negativity '.

Law 's attraction can work in your favor but against you. It's up to you to choose how they use it. If you concentrate on what you want, choose carefully emotion, the thoughts that cross your mind, you will see positive things happen.

If you remain anchored to fears, dark thoughts, your negative mental attitude, use the laws of 'Attraction to the contrary. In practice, only negative events will occur that might aggravate things NOT want. This all seems trivial? Maybe ...

I can tell you my story about it ...

time ago I saw the DVD "The Secret " beautiful ... Maybe you've seen or you've heard. Unless you happen to see it I suggest you book it!

All that is talked about in dvd fascinated me but at the same time, It all seemed too easy.

Maybe because in my culture, as well as perhaps in most of us, we were brainwashed 's idea is "we limits" and that "we can not have everything . In fact, when someone repeats this concept, I always say that "we can not have everything" but only what we want!

Besides the dozens of times I've seen the DVD and it really designed to understand the real meaning, I decided to try it in my personal life. I tried hard to "change " my attitude of mind. I tried

days day after day after day and to apply it, I began to notice the small "events" or " miracles" that occurred in my life. Nothing sensational, but little things that made me feel good and I did notice the "coincidence .
few examples of what has happened to me?

I began to find the place free of 'car almost every day where you'll never find him first.

I resumed contact with a former colleague of mine had not seen for 10 years or so and that he accidentally met my wife at a parade.

And to tell you the 'last, yesterday, my former colleague has shown Interested in becoming a partner sponsor of my project. In fact, for about 3 weeks I'm working on business plan for submission to donors. Unbelievable?
For me yes ...

I must also say though that is not all that easy. That there are days when I think back in my old patterns of thought. It happens. As sometimes happens that there are days where my focus is on positive thoughts, and others in which we are making great effort. But now I can be aware of.

And for this I found that it can take over my thoughts and make things happen that many call "coincidences . I frankly 'label we give it interests me little. What matters is that I know I can help build what I want and get what I want.


How to use "the secret " for you? My advice to you ...


Please clarify what you want and NOT on what NOT want. Try to be specific as possible. Imagine as if you had already 'reached your goal. See yourself as you enjoy it. Try feelings and feel within you 's emotion that takes the heart to get it achieved.

A miracle is behind the door. ... Open it up to you!

to yourself

Salvatore

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Training: The last two contra-indications -

Hello and well met!


conclude today 's argument about "contra-indications " writing of the last and that is: and still will not work' "and " are not special. "

If you want to read all the other you can find them in 'historic archive for the month of November.

Are you ready? Viaaaa ...

begin by recalling that " contra-indications" are the mental habits we have acquired over time. From our parents, school, friends, the circles and the experience we have lived.

The good news is that as we have learned, we can change !

and use them for our benefit ...

We see the first of these 'today: "It will not work anyway'"

This kind of "counter-indication " is one of the most damaging of all, and also the most frequent of all .

Who uses this "counter-indication " always sees the worst of things. Very often believe that any kind of action to take will be 'a failure and therefore do not even try to do.

Do any of these, try to do some action but without the necessary conviction. The result is you will not get 'the desired result. This, makes the " contraindication " and still will not work '"self-fulfilling. In pnl is called "self avverantesi prophecy."

On your journey of life, the more experience and you will not get the results and the stronger and is rooted within you, making it increasingly difficult to replace.

It should start to work .... Now!

"I'm not special"

This "contra-indication " instead leads us to believe that to be successful should possess certain qualities' that we, needless to say, we are lacking. By the perception that there are "mediocre" and that you are not among the "elect" which you can aspire to the success or good things that life offers. To others!

This "contra-indication " provides you with an alibi for the failure volervi take the responsibility 'of your results. Release you from the hassle of having to commit to change your habits of mind with a change results you get.

With this "counter-indication " is easy to find someone to blame or to complain about the successes and missed for all that you did not. Convenient is not it?

As you have read, while traveling through these mental habits that we all have, more or less, we saw how limited our lives.

In the next post I'm going to write about some techniques that can be used to change and replace.

Clearly, my personal suggestion is to Instead of just reading these posts, or ebooks and tools provided in this blog.

I suggest you supplement the reading by participating in live seminars.

And what can help you make the turn eigenstates is called "the hard core - the heart of ' but" (18-19-20 Rome in February 2011).

As I have already 'written in a previous post, I have personally participated in' edition of 2005 and I can say that has contributed in a decisive way to My personal improvement.

You too can achieve the same result as long as you choose to do a lot of practice ...

If you want to receive detailed information, you can write HERE .

I want to leave with a very short step to a story I read on a book by Joe Vitale. Here it is.
A Scottish grandmother used to say, the grandson of four years: "Send a nice thought and one thought will come good 'in its place." Mandane an ugly and another will replace the ugly ' ".

Message: " the secret" is to pay close attention to the creation of thoughts. When you're keen for some good thoughts and they make you happy, then you know you're playing the game that will make you 'win! ".

To your mental,

Salvatore

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Training: counter-evidence base.

usual I am updating this blog.

For those who have had the opportunity to read the previous posts
(if you want are available in 'archive) I'm looking further into certain aspects of the Law 's Attraction and "counter-indications.
In the post I wrote on 16 November of the following contra-indications:" I'm not worth enough "and" I will not be rejected. "

Quest 'I write today of contra-indications " It' s impossible " "The narrow view .

It 's impossible!

The first thing to do when we say that something " It 's impossible " We must make ourselves the question: "It is impossible for those who ?". In fact, there are things possible and impossible things. In both the first and second case, the question " impossible for ?" Helps us to focus on.

Too often there are things possible and things that we do not consider possible for us. Although we realize that the goals we have set in our lives have been made many times by other people, we consider them " impossible for us" that we lack the quality 'of the right knowledge, tools and resources that we have not even others and we have not.

This mental attitude is strongly linked to the contra-indication seen before: "I'm not worth enough . And so it happens that we divide into two separate lists and separate what they "can " from what
" is impossible." This is a work that takes place directly into our subconscious. And since it severely limits us to reject proposals that we receive in advance and that we reject because they are outside of our reach.

About This contra-indication, I want to tell an experience that just yesterday it happened in my life and that is taking me to reflect on myself
and contra-indications that I have self-imposed I have severely limited.

Yesterday I received a call from an old friend and former colleague with whom I shared for about 8 years a number of entrepreneurial projects. It 'was a great experience for personal and professional growth. Of successes but also many failures and a great job behind, with so much motivation and desire to succeed. at all costs!

I remember that period as the most important for me in terms of human and professional. And do not do it again ... but it served to make me what that today.

During these eight years of collaboration with Fernando, the name of this fellow, we met many people. Different social backgrounds but all with a dream. To improve their lives. Along the way, as it happens, everyone takes different paths and choose what is best for themselves. This necessarily involves losing sight.

Just received the phone call yesterday from Fernando, which we lost touch for about 9 years, I became aware of some of our
"former colleagues" with whom he is cooperating.

Some companies have created the turnovers that are now important. Someone He moved to Miami and is the CEO of a company of Real Estate. Someone 'else has founded five companies in various sectors.
Fernando and his company I founded with my W & T - Your Personal Advisor ( www.weddingandtourist.it ).

Personally I have not yet achieved the results I wanted when I left. I do not have a turnover in relation to this important two former colleagues. I moved to 'foreign but I was in Rome (I moved years ago from Sicily). Yet we start from the same point. We worked together, we did the same training and we have fought for the same dream.
Because they have achieved these results and I still do not?

I've been thinking a lot about this question and the answer I found in me is that I my luggage counter-indications that I have self-imposed. I also realized that I was thinking to myself on writing a business plan that I completed last week.

I placed in 'area of \u200b\u200b"revenue forecasts " exactly "what I thought was possible " get. A turnover that comes from my personal experience but, seen through the eyes of an investor, can definitely be unattractive to finance the project.

is how we self-limit. That's how I self-limited. And that's why I wrote of my direct experience.

And you are reflecting on how these contra-indications are limiting your life?

The second counter-claim which I write about today is "The narrow view." People who have this counter-indication, I think there is only one way to achieve a goal. A solution to a problem. A only solution to do a certain thing. But is that really so?

We often think that making money should be graduate and have a job prestige. And this is the ' ONLY way to do it. Someone led us to think that ' ONLY way to make money is to be "dishonest " "enter politics" , " not pay taxes,"
" to have entrature " etc.

But is that really so?

Of course not ... there are many ways to make money also to be dishonest if your conscience allows you. But NOT 'the ONLY WAY to get them ... .

Who thinks there is only one way of doing things, or achieve a goal, closes any opportunity 'presented to us. This precludes the opportunities 'that' universe has given us and that we do not recognize.

I hope this post today, can help you to think about how you act on these counter-claims. Once you have understood and recognized, the real challenge is to change of our mental attitude. And that's us know when we decide to leave or continue to be slaves.

The choice is yours ...

To your mental,

Salvatore

Ps. here on the right side of the blog I have selected for you a series of tools that can help you in your path. There are also free resources to download ...

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Training: counter-evidence base.

And you are "nut" or "apricot?"

Here I am with the usual update of this blog.

In the previous post, I wrote two really powerful counter-indications: fear of failure and fear of success.

You have got to think about how these fears affect your life?

Today I want to write some of the more common contra-indications. E ' very likely that you will recognize them as the already proven 'in your life.

1. I'm not worth enough

Maybe you will 'happen during the course of your life will not be able to get the job you want with great intensity'. Maybe you too will 'happen, as has happened to me when I played basketball, not have been chosen by the coach or the coach of your team for the big game.

or there will be 'ever was not / a considered for the audition so that tenevate. The 'love ends, a notice will soon cut the supply of current elettrica.T ll these experiences repeatedly in the course of your life, make you feel not right with yourself.

I must say that I personally have experienced several times during my research to pursue my dream, the unpleasant experience of warnings that foreshadowed the cut of electricity supply.

phone calls of creditors who had to return the money that I had been provided.

Even more disturbing is the " silence" of loved ones who have asked for help in a time of difficulty 'and look at you as if you were a poor man who tries to pull to strive for a living.

All these emotions, sorely test our self-esteem . The value we place on ourselves. And we take it according to the results we get from 'outside and according to the opinion of others.

And just when we decide to change our lives, our inner voice, reminds us that are not worth enough to get what we want. This, always judging the facts and past situations. It 's a bit how to keep a foot on the ' accelerator and brake at the same time one on .

you ever hear of that? To me, many times.

The second counter-claim on which today I want to emphasize is:

2. I will not be refused

Have you ever experienced this feeling? I will, hundreds of times, and in particular in two moments of my life. The first approach when I was a teenage girl. I did not ever because of the counter-claim. I however, identified a technical and a strategy that would help me to attract 's attention and girls were interested in me.

And do not tell you how because this is my "secret " that worked, at least for me ...

Another occasion on which I tested against this indication is when I started my career as a door-to-seller door in 1992, in Sicily , I sold encyclopedias and multimedia.

that, to be in the floppy disk. Can you imagine in Sicily in '92, lost in the villages to sell multimedia encyclopedias ???!! Say no more. Quest ' last experience lasted over time during my business career.

And I created several problems. Those involved with sales knows that the main fear is for a seller "waste . I struggled to shake off the counter-claim. Although occasionally crops up outside. But now I know how to handle it ...

The fear of rejection afflicts many people . The student who is afraid to seek help from the teacher. An employee who wants to ask a colleague to hand or worse, ask for a raise its head. Those who are trying to go out with someone who's interested in and not know the "secret "my strategy ... eheheh ..

This contraindication is induced by fear . No one likes being rejected. Only you can allow it to interfere in your plans. And to learn how to manage it is a special training course and I suggest: " the core - the heart of 'self-esteem .

This course was really helpful to me as the 'I attended in 2005 when I was commercial director of' company that proposed it. I have to say here, I found the key to learn how to manage the emotions related to fear.

It took me a lot because then I was to come into contact with CEOs, managers of enterprises for training high-level (Vodafone, Iveco and many others).

These figures not only in me graduate and I have never worked in multinational companies, who use technical terms and specialized in English that I do not know, I have created many fears and some anxiety too.

made me feel the "weight " not to be 'high. But Then, thanks to deep reflection made during this training course on self-esteem " the core - the heart of 'self-esteem", ( Rome, February 18-19-20), I realized that they were "my" and fears that had no basis in reality '. But I created a lot of difficulty 'and constraints.

the same difficulties' and the limits that I have learned to manage it, I was "I" that I created, and I was "I " which gave him power. And since "I " I created the " I "I could replace them. And so I started working on it day after day. With effort and a lot of practice.

In fact, before any appointment or telephone contact with these figures to interact with, I learned to put into practice a series of visualization exercises that helped me to overcome my fears them.

As I passed I you can overcome even as long as you decide to and be willing and wanting to do a lot of practice . The result is guaranteed only if you think you can handle do.

If any of you want to have information about the course live "The hard core - the heart of 'self-esteem ( Rome, February 18-19-20) you can write HERE

For now, I leave you to reflect on these two contra-indications and my own experience. Maybe there can be a stimulus to overcome them decide once and for all.

way, but you embodies the apricot walnut or model?

On your self-esteem,

Salvatore

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Training: fear is not a 'friend ...

Hello to all friends and well-matched.

As already 'mentioned in the previous post, I will share with you information relating to Law' s Attraction.

Today I want to write about a topic that unites all human beings: the
fear.

Two of the strongest counter-claims that must learn to deal with are:

• The fear of failure
• The fear of success

It just like friends. You read that right. These are the two main fears on which we must work, and many more.

The situations that each of you associated with these situations, are what keep you inside what is called in NLP " comfort zone" (I mentioned a few posts ago) and that prevents you from reaching your goals. Be afraid to get out of your "fences " Although it states the opposite.

The result of this fear is that you allow yourself to escape the improvements and progress we have made, often without having the opportunity 'to see your goals achieved.

E 'of vital importance to understand that bankruptcy is not the end of everything, but as Anthony Robbins says (No. 1 trainer and consultant in the world of personality' important), is a result that you got .
's just a feedback from which you receive an' information which tells you that something is not perfect yet. That there is something to improve.

Watching what we call "failure " from this point of view, you realize that first gave him less emotional power. We provide ourselves a chance 'to change the feedback we received, changing our thoughts, emotions with and its actions that follow.

All this allows us to restructure the meaning, turning it into a resource rather than a block. The so-called " failure "is a natural process of education and learning, which is essential to our success.

This is the thing that most impressed me during all the training I've done over the last 18 years.
Each of us has prejudices towards others and themselves.

How many times have you start a project and then not have it completed? Never obtained a degree, a diet left, a stack of books read in the middle '.

These examples are telling you something? What is the point to start something, do not devote energy to portal then run? You know it is a waste but continue to do so. Why??


Because that you are aware or not, you fear of success and what it means in your life. New habit of you should take. A new approach of your life. As a new person to know. For each of these should be out of our "comfort zone " and this creates fatigue. We create "pain " effort. "

Fear of success is very common . It seems that almost make you fear the things you say you will. It happens to many people. Fear is the anxiety of anticipating, is that " What if ...."

At this point, I will share with you my fear of success. Probably maybe still is, but the fact that I'm aware, the first step to overcoming it.

How many of you know, I am an entrepreneur in the services for the lifestyle and leisure.

Although things are not yet as I want (I have some ambitious goals), and despite claims to myself and to others that would like to strongly and intensely, maybe I'm self-sabotaging that still are not present in my life.

I had this intuition exactly 3 or 4 weeks ago. And from there I started my analysis of introspection to understand "what " make me afraid if I had achieved what it claims to want it intensely.

The answer is that I gave my real fear is not thought able to deal with certain situations. Not because it is really capable.

Simply because I have not ever done me no and the 'have taught . And 'that famous " what if ..." is coming out of my fear ... the fear of failure on one aspect of the situation.

The other answer that came out is that, if realized what I have in mind and say they want,

necessarily have to change my habits . My times,
's setting my day, a lifestyle a bit' more suitable for those who drive a successful business also made up of Board meetings, meeting with banks, investors and all that concerns the world of business.

All that stuff fascinates me, but I'm afraid that might upset my current life.

These were from my unconscious fears " block" for the gifts that
's universe, I'm not delivered.

Another important aspect is that often limit "the way we receive our gifts. We are often tied to the fact that the goals we must reach them ONLY in our present activities', precluding the opportunity and failing to recognize 'that' universe sends us.

This way limiting to expect gifts, means that we can not see them. We fail to grasp the "miracle i" happen to us every day.

This approach to the way of seeing things, prevents us from gathering all the fruits that we receive each day. Whether they're great, whether they are small.
The solution? Stay open to everything that the 'universe sends us. Not necessarily our success and our gifts have to come from a path that we have established.

Think about it ...

the next update,

Salvatore