Hello to all friends and well-matched.
As already 'mentioned in the previous post, I will share with you information relating to Law' s Attraction.
Today I want to write about a topic that unites all human beings: the
fear.
Two of the strongest counter-claims that must learn to deal with are:
- The fear of failure
- The fear of success
The situations that each of you associated with these situations, are what keep you inside what is called in NLP " comfort zone" (I mentioned a few posts ago) and that prevents you from reaching your goals. Be afraid to get out of your "fences " Although it states the opposite.
The result of this fear is that you allow yourself to escape the improvements and progress we have made, often without having the opportunity 'to see your goals achieved.
E 'of vital importance to understand that bankruptcy is not the end of everything, but as Anthony Robbins says (No. 1 trainer and consultant in the world of personality' important), is a result that you got .
's just a feedback from which you receive an' information which tells you that something is not perfect yet. That there is something to improve.
Watching what we call "failure " from this point of view, you realize that first gave him less emotional power. We provide ourselves a chance 'to change the feedback we received, changing our thoughts, emotions with and its actions that follow.
All this allows us to restructure the meaning, turning it into a resource rather than a block. The so-called " failure "is a natural process of education and learning, which is essential to our success.
This is the thing that most impressed me during all the training I've done over the last 18 years.
Each of us has prejudices towards others and themselves.
How many times have you start a project and then not have it completed? Never obtained a degree, a diet left, a stack of books read in the middle '.
These examples are telling you something? What is the point to start something, do not devote energy to portal then run? You know it is a waste but continue to do so. Why??
Because that you are aware or not, you fear of success and what it means in your life. New habit of you should take. A new approach of your life. As a new person to know. For each of these should be out of our "comfort zone " and this creates fatigue. We create "pain " effort. "
Fear of success is very common . It seems that almost make you fear the things you say you will. It happens to many people. Fear is the anxiety of anticipating, is that " What if ...."
At this point, I will share with you my fear of success. Probably maybe still is, but the fact that I'm aware, the first step to overcoming it.
How many of you know, I am an entrepreneur in the services for the lifestyle and leisure.
Although things are not yet as I want (I have some ambitious goals), and despite claims to myself and to others that would like to strongly and intensely, maybe I'm self-sabotaging that still are not present in my life.
I had this intuition exactly 3 or 4 weeks ago. And from there I started my analysis of introspection to understand "what " make me afraid if I had achieved what it claims to want it intensely.
The answer is that I gave my real fear is not thought able to deal with certain situations. Not because it is really capable.
Simply because I have not ever done me no and the 'have taught . And 'that famous " what if ..." is coming out of my fear ... the fear of failure on one aspect of the situation.
The other answer that came out is that, if realized what I have in mind and say they want,
necessarily have to change my habits . My times,
's setting my day, a lifestyle a bit' more suitable for those who drive a successful business also made up of Board meetings, meeting with banks, investors and all that concerns the world of business.
All that stuff fascinates me, but I'm afraid that might upset my current life.
These were from my unconscious fears " block" for the gifts that
's universe, I'm not delivered.
Another important aspect is that often limit "the way we receive our gifts. We are often tied to the fact that the goals we must reach them ONLY in our present activities', precluding the opportunity and failing to recognize 'that' universe sends us.
This way limiting to expect gifts, means that we can not see them. We fail to grasp the "miracle i" happen to us every day.
This approach to the way of seeing things, prevents us from gathering all the fruits that we receive each day. Whether they're great, whether they are small.
The solution? Stay open to everything that the 'universe sends us. Not necessarily our success and our gifts have to come from a path that we have established.
Think about it ...
the next update,
Salvatore
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