usual I am updating this blog.
For those who have had the opportunity to read the previous posts
(if you want are available in 'archive) I'm looking further into certain aspects of the Law 's Attraction and "counter-indications.
In the post I wrote on 16 November of the following contra-indications:" I'm not worth enough "and" I will not be rejected. "
Quest 'I write today of contra-indications " It' s impossible " "The narrow view .
It 's impossible!
The first thing to do when we say that something " It 's impossible " We must make ourselves the question: "It is impossible for those who ?". In fact, there are things possible and impossible things. In both the first and second case, the question " impossible for ?" Helps us to focus on.
Too often there are things possible and things that we do not consider possible for us. Although we realize that the goals we have set in our lives have been made many times by other people, we consider them " impossible for us" that we lack the quality 'of the right knowledge, tools and resources that we have not even others and we have not.
This mental attitude is strongly linked to the contra-indication seen before: "I'm not worth enough . And so it happens that we divide into two separate lists and separate what they "can " from what
" is impossible." This is a work that takes place directly into our subconscious. And since it severely limits us to reject proposals that we receive in advance and that we reject because they are outside of our reach.
About This contra-indication, I want to tell an experience that just yesterday it happened in my life and that is taking me to reflect on myself
and contra-indications that I have self-imposed I have severely limited.
Yesterday I received a call from an old friend and former colleague with whom I shared for about 8 years a number of entrepreneurial projects. It 'was a great experience for personal and professional growth. Of successes but also many failures and a great job behind, with so much motivation and desire to succeed. at all costs!
I remember that period as the most important for me in terms of human and professional. And do not do it again ... but it served to make me what that today.
During these eight years of collaboration with Fernando, the name of this fellow, we met many people. Different social backgrounds but all with a dream. To improve their lives. Along the way, as it happens, everyone takes different paths and choose what is best for themselves. This necessarily involves losing sight.
Just received the phone call yesterday from Fernando, which we lost touch for about 9 years, I became aware of some of our
"former colleagues" with whom he is cooperating.
Some companies have created the turnovers that are now important. Someone He moved to Miami and is the CEO of a company of Real Estate. Someone 'else has founded five companies in various sectors.
Fernando and his company I founded with my W & T - Your Personal Advisor ( www.weddingandtourist.it ).
Personally I have not yet achieved the results I wanted when I left. I do not have a turnover in relation to this important two former colleagues. I moved to 'foreign but I was in Rome (I moved years ago from Sicily). Yet we start from the same point. We worked together, we did the same training and we have fought for the same dream.
Because they have achieved these results and I still do not?
I've been thinking a lot about this question and the answer I found in me is that I my luggage counter-indications that I have self-imposed. I also realized that I was thinking to myself on writing a business plan that I completed last week.
I placed in 'area of \u200b\u200b"revenue forecasts " exactly "what I thought was possible " get. A turnover that comes from my personal experience but, seen through the eyes of an investor, can definitely be unattractive to finance the project.
is how we self-limit. That's how I self-limited. And that's why I wrote of my direct experience.
And you are reflecting on how these contra-indications are limiting your life?
The second counter-claim which I write about today is "The narrow view." People who have this counter-indication, I think there is only one way to achieve a goal. A solution to a problem. A only solution to do a certain thing. But is that really so?
We often think that making money should be graduate and have a job prestige. And this is the ' ONLY way to do it. Someone led us to think that ' ONLY way to make money is to be "dishonest " "enter politics" , " not pay taxes,"
" to have entrature " etc.
But is that really so?
Of course not ... there are many ways to make money also to be dishonest if your conscience allows you. But NOT 'the ONLY WAY to get them ... .
Who thinks there is only one way of doing things, or achieve a goal, closes any opportunity 'presented to us. This precludes the opportunities 'that' universe has given us and that we do not recognize.
I hope this post today, can help you to think about how you act on these counter-claims. Once you have understood and recognized, the real challenge is to change of our mental attitude. And that's us know when we decide to leave or continue to be slaves.
The choice is yours ...
To your mental,
Salvatore
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