Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Letter For Service Disconnect

Energy and spirituality can not be not considered.


You probably know the role of a coach. They do a great job of support and often the most prepared and who take their profession as a "mission" and are continually looking for ways to improve and to help other people.

Many explore various practices and disciplines. L ' Transactional Analysis, the pnl ( Neuro Linguistic Programming), the Gestalt , the Dynamic Mental the Meditation and many others. Often the coach, the ones I work with personally, I trust that among their students and they are many, they notice a certain " deviation" of society.
Science, consumerism, religion, education, politics, education, medicine, people who are producing more and more often, less in tune with themselves and the world, or rather with the 'Universe around them.

Maybe we should go back. This is the belief that we gave Livio Sgarbi, one of the most popular Personal Coach at national and European level. Confirm that the perception as if it had taken a wrong turn. As if we're heading into a blind alley.



One of the things I am experiencing on my skin, and I'm convincing myself day after day is that we must train ourselves to be in harmony with our universe , with the nature of which are a part. with the 'energy that we are the source . Already the 'energy ...

But you know something about these energy? as the measure? How do we recognize it? This is one of our limits is given to us by our perceptions.


You've probably heard of quantum physics . Personally, until a few years ago I did not know existed. But when I heard, my inquisitive nature and thirst for knowledge, is leading me to a deepening of 'argument. The quantum psychology

are connecting our human nature with its behavior and its psycho-emotional balance. Today we all have to learn to deal with its energy and the own spirituality. This
to attract positive energy and a better life. To achieve its objectives and to make his life worth living. Today I think it's useful to go back and take a different path from that which the whole world is pursuing.



Our world, our universe consists of much more than what we can see and feel. On this there is no doubt now. And Franco Battiato , the famous singer from Catania, he already sang about 30 years ago.

But in those years for me, maybe it was difficult to understand because I was only ten. But for other more mature for my age, maybe they would not miss the point and maybe they would have laughed.

But this is the story that pass all those who are always ahead. Both in the thought that in 'attitude. Do not you think?



With this update today, I am taking a break this holiday season for many (I use it for some time to myself and my reflection). And for this, the next update will come back to the early days of the new year.


A great wish you all a Merry Christmas and a 2011 extraordinary, full of all the things you want out of your depth. But only those ...


GREETINGS!


Salvatore












Thursday, December 16, 2010

Is It Normal To Have A Mucousy Period

Your destiny? In Decisions ...

One of the phrases that most impressed me during my 15 years training and personal development is: "is at times of decisions that create your destiny." One sentence read many years ago on a book by Anthony Robbins (No. 1 motivational trainer in the world).

And this sentence that accompanies me in my thoughts and on the things that life offers me every day. From there, the ' right mental attitude which is the extra gear that can help anyone. Especially in this period " difficult. hard way ... for whom?


Many complain of the crisis, the government, there is no work, I did not push the right etc.. while others take advantage of this moment to create their own opportunities. Who is right? Both. The real difference is made by those who
the 'mental attitude towards right and then


dell’ individuare delle opportunità e delle soluzioni che altri non riescono a vedere. Non perché non ci siano, ma semplicemente perché sono focalizzati sulle lamentele della crisi, del non avere le opportunità giuste e via dicendo. Realta’ o solo “ comodità” nel non prendersi le proprie responsabilità??

Spesso chi perde il lavoro o non riesce a trovarlo(ammesso che lo stia cercando), si crogiola dietro una serie di difficoltà che conducono ad una vita irta di problemi e di ostacoli crescenti. E’ qui che deve mettersi in gioco il giusto atteggiamento mentale.

Da una parte ci sono di cosiddetti ISTAT data, from 'the other side is real life with everyone who writes his own history, its difficulties', the network, protection is more often the family or even grandparents.

The question that I've heard often is: " you can now create the objectives against which all rows?". Many of you who follow me for a long time know that the answer is "YES ."

Certain difficulties are there and it would be shortsighted not to see them. Surely the 'environment influences us and is not easy to stay out. And for this, we find solace in the GNP with its rules, namely: that no matter what happens to us.

What is important is the meaning we attach with the 'help of our mente.Come ago a young man who struggled to find work not be carried away by the environment?

is clear that if a person is influenced by negative thoughts, the news that you read daily newspapers or listening on TV, then it becomes really hard not to be affected. It is difficult to think that we too will be affected by the crisis.

of us but is really motivated to achieve their goals, will certainly find a way to change the internal representation of what happens. E " how? , "some of you may be wondering.

The answer would be too long because
on 'argument there are whole books about it in its entirety. Another way to learn the techniques and change their internal representations is to attend the GNP Practionar (4-5-6 Milan in February, February 18-19-20, Padova February 4-5-6, 18-19-20 February ). If you want to know more you can write HERE .

I am simply saying that it is important to take every positive starting around us, even from a negative and critical environment and be able to bring them to our advantage. In fact it is so ...

Another aid that can pick you up is useful to identify the stories of famous people and not, who have managed to achieve their aims, despite the circumstances. People who have realized their dreams and their goals . You will notice that they have things in common.

Personally, I have my mind reading biographies of celebrities and entrepreneurs who have started from scratch and who have realized their dreams. What they have in common? have a dream and a burning desire to achieve beyond what happens during the journey to get there. Any suggestions?



Here in the next box, under "Selected ebook" you can find the 'ebook' Notes from a friend of Anthony Robbis and discover that all 'age of 22 years was suffering from gigantism, was grassissimo, washing dishes in the bathtub, he lived in a studio and his life soon led him to financial survival. How did he get out? Can be found in this ebook that I have reported. I will not take away the fun of discovering "the secret .

Another example? In fact two of our home. You know the story of Albano Carrisi? And that's John Calone (Massimo Ranieri). Read on and discover things that these people have in common. But the hooks, economic assistance, culture and preparation are important?

certainly are important and are part of the "tool box" that each of us. More or less equipped. But that's up to us to fill it with useful tools ... but alone is not enough. You need to have another: the 'mindset !

And so the question naturally arises. "What should I do to have a mindset right?" Simple, choose to take care of them through reading that we offer ideas, resources, reflections and then take part in courses personal development live and to keep in practice even in a simple way to listen to material with through files in mp3.

And here in this blog have only the 'embarrassment of choice. But you have no more excuses to delay. Start now!


At your mental attitude,

Salvatore

Monday, December 13, 2010

Template Of An Auditorium Seating

LIFE - Naughty -

Life, which affects our hearts
illusion too many loves,
only an hour I asked you, life, black and white fragments


beyond the memories at this moment, no more colors.
But you are my life, it rains in the wet

since I was born,
merger between illusion and truth, looking for my portrait

among the many faces of the same, but
tell me what will happen to me?!

What do you enjoy, I steal
dignity,
look at me while I sleep and when you pretend
dream.
clothes I fear, I dressed in silence, do you think
so smart,
another night and we'll see.

But you are my life, needle on the wound,
I will not let you slip away!

life, but look, 'what a life, leaves you with nothing

after we satisfied,
promises paradise
destroy your past, asks

only smile in return.
Life, you are my life, this world

more runs and stops,
it rains in the wet,
since I was born,
but give me a little 'love and freedom!

But, you think only you, my
never defines it,
look at me while I sleep when I dream, and pretend
,
reveal my tricks and my but.
Life, which affects our hearts
illusion too many loves,
merger between illusion and truth.

But you are my life, needle on the wound,
I will not let you slip away!


by: Poetry (m)

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Psa Ideas About School

pnl: Achieving Success? And confirm ...

Personal Mental Coach: Livio Sgarbi

E ' more difficult to make or confirm this?
A word from our Mental Coach: Livio Sgarbi.

Achieving success is difficult to confirm but it is even more!

So many times I've heard from the samples that the most difficult task for an athlete and not only not achieve 'success, but the area able to confirm day after day. This situation happens in sports but in life every day.

Often who seeks to reach the top, a bottom with the result and its inner strength who has nothing to lose. Who takes off with a privileged position as it were, to be "already here", but must struggle to confirm their status.

It often has more to lose than to gain. If we look at everything from the perspective of the Mental Coaching , there are two different types of work to do. One way to succeed el 'else to confirm. One of the techniques that I use is to mentally prepare myself to achieve my goal.

The secret is in the handling of the same but once the 'I have achieved. To describe this metaphor one step that can help us understand. If I did this would be like teaching a person to reach the summit of a mountain without explaining how to do then to descend.

One thing that I apply every time you work with someone with the 'goal of achieving a big goal and a great achievement is to make us reflect on the consequences of "negative" so to speak, once reached. It seems strange that we must take precautions on an accomplishment but it's true! It makes sense to prepare

also the negative consequences of 'achievements and success. What are these consequences? Here are a few. Joy, change of motivation, the resposabilita ' and expectations. But above all
's break form.

A concrete example? Francesca Schiavone after the great victory in Paris, found itself with some unexpected setbacks and unexpected was his own victory. This shows with great clarity that confirm that the "number one" can be very difficult. Few

they succeed but that has nothing to do with talent, in this case tennis. I never thought of?


To your success, and a confirmation of it!

Salvatore

Friday, December 3, 2010

Effects Of Sterling Silver

GNP: Want to know what you need?

Livio Sgarbi: Personal Mental Coach


Nothing! And now 'everything inside of you, now! Nothing more.
This is what teaches Livio Sgarbi, one of the leading experts internationally As for personal development. In fact, Livio and his company was chosen as our partner for what concerns the service of "Personal Mental Coach " in my business plan:

W & T-Your Personal Advisor (
www.weddingandtourist.it ). If you want further information on Personal Mental Coach you can read HERE .

Continuing with the 'teaching of Livy, you do not need anything more to make the most of your skills. In fact, as told in his experience of 20 years of activity ' as a Personal Coach, the vast majority of people get far less than what they might have.

would be like aboard a Ferrari, they were always in the front without changing gears. Incredible! Many, as I wrote in previous posts about the "counter-indications " is a vote of confidence in themselves and in their ability '. For others it is a matter of personal leadership, or fail to take control of their lives.

Many others do not have the motivation, while others is just a matter of methodology. In practice, they do not know where to start. And you

you're wondering what stops you from 'express yourself 100%?


To help you understand Could we start from 'beginning ...
The "secret" lies in first question you must ask yourself is: " are truly interested in improving the quality' of my results? " If the answer is yes, you can start your journey.

One thing that struck me during a seminar I attended was this statement: The results you get are only the outward manifestation of what you are and what you do .

heard this, I was moved. A little 'as if I had received a slap in the face and I woke up to' sudden. And this is good or bad.

This phrase has helped me to deeply reflect on myself and on my way of doing things. And questions have begun their journey in me ... Maybe I should become an 'other person to accomplish what I wanted? Maybe I could improve my mental attitude and therefore my thoughts, emotions and my actions? Maybe I have to concentrate on other things but not a priority?

So I started my research on how best to get what I want. The thing that gave me strength and on which he relied Livio (nice play on words ... eh?)
was that "you are the 'architect of your destiny ." The frankly Livio is always much appreciated, especially when it puts you ahead of things to do to improve. In that session of the course participants said to us all: if you want change and want to improve your results ... then you get in the game and work on it yourself!

There are better solutions to achieve 'excellence. Never mind those who talk about bad luck.
Forget those who claim to be the others who must change. 'S only one on which you bet you! In whatever you decide to get in the game, you can not give to others before they have it. Again, you're the first to change.

intend to work on yourself, Livio still have to work on some areas:

-
Self-esteem - confidence in yourself / a
- Personal Leadership
- L 'empowering' decision
- The management of the state of 'mind
- Stress management
- Motivation
- The ability' to act forcefully
- Personal safety
- The ability to 'relational
- Change management
- Clarity el' inner balance


understand how alone / a, work there and to do so. At this point many, the most motivated, the first applications are beginning to arise.

"But you can really improve these aspects?". "But everyone has their own character?" "How can you do?". The

replied that I would give is that certainly can be improved. In fact this, Livio and his team of trainers has created During an extraordinary " Coaching Excellence." A course that is inspired by one of those events in which Anthony Robbins (the world's # 1 trainer), leads around the world. During

, you create an extraordinary setting consists of music, beauty, warmth and fun. All things that help you discover how to express the best of you. A course of four days in which the 'sole interpreter is yourself. A

4 days devoted entirely to you same to transform your life. During this event, do an extraordinary job on themselves. The most important aspects of yourself and your life. You must be wondering how are the benefits? Many ... many ... Here i principali e che ho sperimentato personalmente:



- Gestire al meglio le tue emozioni
- Prenderai decisioni con maggiore fermezza
- Imparerai a trasformare i problemi in opportunita’
- Imparerai ad eliminare gli auto sabotaggi che metti in atto
- Acquisirai leadership personale e prenderai il controllo della tua vita
- Sentirai maggiore entusiasmo e passione per ciò che fai
- Userai la mente come acceleratore di risultati
- Lascerai le paure che ti hanno bloccato fino ad ora
- Avrai maggiore fiducia in te stesso/a
- understand your true potential and learn to use it
- Learn how to overcome obstacles that until now have prevented you reaching your goals


These are things that I have learned and that is why I decided to start this blog. Just to be able to somehow help all those people who feel they need and want to improve. Certainly attend this event is not the panacea for all ills .

The most important part is up to you. ONLY TO YOU! Some people who have participated are enthusiastic as me about the change that has brought them. In fact, beyond my personal testimony, I decided to present here a few:



Silvia Pasqualetti
Area Manager

For me the Coaching Excellence has been the biggest opportunity I've had so far to tidy up inside me, to listen deeply and understand what are the cardinal points that I really want to follow the adventurous journey of my life.


will be missed
bank employee
Participate all'Excellence Coaching for me has been a extraordinary! Four days have been overflowing with energy, emotions, laughter, tears, human contact ... four days magic that helped me become aware of many things that helped me put order in my life who helped me!

For me it was like finding the switch to turn on the light in my darkest corners, which until then did not allow my emotions to take the right path to stay healthy.



Antonio Livrieri
professional rugby player (Serie A)

I attended in November all'Excellence Coaching 2007 and was a very meaningful experience for my life and my personal growth.

I found out what was really important for me, what were my values \u200b\u200band what was important for me to defend them and respect them in my everyday life. Thanks

all'Excellence Coaching today I have a code of conduct daily which allows me to do every step in the direction of the mission of my life and have no more doubts in the choices we make because I know where I'm going.

I wake up in the morning knowing that I have a long way to go and my every action is part of an overall plan selected and determined solely by myself.



Greta Ferrari
Young Entrepreneur

Almost no one knows for sure what is going to do. Almost nobody comes out as equal to Coaching Excellence has entered.

I brought home experiences and consciously beautiful amazing people who taught me that life can be, not only different but better!

spurred me to get in the game, proving that anything is possible if the heart and mind want it. There are four days that changed me profoundly ... I'm back baby, relived my past, clutching the best, and with a breath of kindness, blow away the worst. I

are projected into the future, set targets and discovered a force that was already inside me, but I thought I had no ... and above all I learned to appreciate my present, with the goal of continuously IMPROVING.


The next training course will be held '
28 to 1 May 2011.

If you want to participate, you can write
HERE .

to you!


Salvatore

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Calories In A Braums Fruit And Yogurt Swirl

you want to live? And then ....


.... Let something remarkable!
Quest 'today, I am writing something that could help in' help you feel alive. Something to inspire you to do things VERY LARGE '.

start with a question to give you an answer ...

When was the 'last time you tried to do something new? When you have made a decision that has impressed so much that I could not sleep at night?
When you decided to create a project that took all your heart, your soul and imagination ran without knowing any kind of restraint? When did this happen? Do you remember?
Think about it ...

Dare to do something remarkable!

This is the second step (after the first written in previous post) you need to do. Do something remarkable. Something you never did and that goes beyond what you think you can do.

This is the breeding ground for Law 's Attraction . I know that usually when we give the goals we try to give us what we think we can achieve.

This is not wrong, but there pushes into territories unknown. We push to get out of our comfort zone or awakens us enthusiastically. But when we set ourselves a target not know how to make , were evoking the maximum power of the Law 's Attraction.

Dare to dream something that is truly worthy of you!

I'll tell you my experience ... and just yesterday with the continuation of this night!

Those who follow my blog regularly knows that I'm working to "reboot" in large, a project that has for too long been living below their possibilities'.

And this is not due to external causes but "limits" that I have self-imposed in a totally unconscious. For some months I decided to say enough! In fact I'm working on a business plan and I'm looking for financing partners for this project.

L 'other day, I found a company that may be interested as a potential funding partner. Yesterday I met a former colleague of mine who along with the company 'of which he is a member, is interested in evaluating the opportunity' of my project.

You have no idea what scenarios have been opened before my eyes. The feeling I had is to vividly imagine how things could be combined.

The opportunity 'which is open, the markets on which we can work and results we can get. In a moment I saw it with my professional and personal life changed completely!

New habits, new people, new experiences stimulants. A thousand new opportunity 'on which to finally build the company that I always dreamed of and I'm working on today.

A rush of pure adrenaline ... too bad that all this happened while I was in bed and I could not "turn off" my brain. An 'extraordinary experience .... able to work only for passion and do not need to '!

addition to this "movie" full of excitement, however, flanked by my fears, fears of things that are not used to it. The fears are not perhaps all 'height situations.

But I immediately replaced these limiting thoughts and I enjoyed the show. I was reminded of the techniques that I acquired during the course of attended training in 2005 "The hard core - the heart of 'self-esteem" and from there I left to rekindle my passion and my dreams to which I long to give voice and make it happen. This

thanks to something I read in a book, Dare to do something remarkable!


This is what has happened to me. Also you can happen the same or even better!

I became the personal coach of myself!

If anyone is interested in the course " the core - the heart of 'self-esteem, held in Rome on 18-19 February-. You can request information HERE .

And you, what you're thinking of doing so significant?

to your projects!

Salvatore

Monday, November 29, 2010

Why Do Cats Make Patty Cakes

Training: clarity? First of all ...

Hello everyone, well found.
Today I write this update with a priority thing to do when you want something clarity!

Many will have read in various books on pnl. Others will have read or seen on DVD and material relating to the Law 's Attraction. For those who wish to learn the 'argument on the law d' Attraction, on this blog in the right section dedicated to Ebook is the material with which to deepen.

In this blog certainly is also the subject, but as you can imagine, are only surface-treated and they certainly deserve study and also participate in live classes.
Law 's Attraction states that everything in ' universe is at our disposal .
We need to ask for it and expect that we are given. It may sound simple but it is.


fact every day we see some real "miracles " only that we are too preoccupied by things that are not so, not realizing it. A "miracle " is nothing more than "a change of perception." Or pay attention to all those good things that happen to us. Every day.

If we turn our thoughts from fear to 'love, all things change' and a moment " miracle" happens. To understand the miracle manifestation of something.
and the Law 's Attraction is closely linked to our thoughts and our feelings. It is very powerful and allow you to work there are some small steps forward. Here they are ...


1) Eliminate the negativity 'and focus on what you want.

What does this mean in practical terms? Simply focus on what we want . Stop to stay focused on everything that is wrong and stop telling all our negativity '.

Law 's attraction can work in your favor but against you. It's up to you to choose how they use it. If you concentrate on what you want, choose carefully emotion, the thoughts that cross your mind, you will see positive things happen.

If you remain anchored to fears, dark thoughts, your negative mental attitude, use the laws of 'Attraction to the contrary. In practice, only negative events will occur that might aggravate things NOT want. This all seems trivial? Maybe ...


I can tell you my story about it ...

time ago I saw the DVD "The Secret " beautiful ... Maybe you've seen or you've heard. Unless you happen to see it I suggest you book it!

All that is talked about in dvd fascinated me but at the same time, It all seemed too easy.

Maybe because in my culture, as well as perhaps in most of us, we were brainwashed 's idea is "we limits" and that "we can not have everything . In fact, when someone repeats this concept, I always say that "we can not have everything" but only what we want!

Besides the dozens of times I've seen the DVD and it really designed to understand the real meaning, I decided to try it in my personal life. I tried hard to "change " my attitude of mind. I tried

days day after day after day and to apply it, I began to notice the small "events" or " miracles" that occurred in my life. Nothing sensational, but little things that made me feel good and I did notice the "coincidence .
few examples of what has happened to me?

I began to find the place free of 'car almost every day where you'll never find him first.

I resumed contact with a former colleague of mine had not seen for 10 years or so and that he accidentally met my wife at a parade.


And to tell you the 'last, yesterday, my former colleague has shown Interested in becoming a partner sponsor of my project. In fact, for about 3 weeks I'm working on business plan for submission to donors. Unbelievable?

For me yes ...

I must also say though that is not all that easy. That there are days when I think back in my old patterns of thought. It happens. As sometimes happens that there are days where my focus is on positive thoughts, and others in which we are making great effort. But now I can be aware of.

And for this I found that it can take over my thoughts and make things happen that many call "coincidences . I frankly 'label we give it interests me little. What matters is that I know I can help build what I want and get what I want.



How to use "the secret " for you? My advice to you ...


Please clarify what you want and NOT on what NOT want. Try to be specific as possible. Imagine as if you had already 'reached your goal. See yourself as you enjoy it. Try feelings and feel within you 's emotion that takes the heart to get it achieved.

A miracle is behind the door. ... Open it up to you!


to yourself

Salvatore

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Hotpoint Aquarius Dishwasher Button Flashes

Training: The last two contra-indications -

Hello and well met!


conclude today 's argument about "contra-indications " writing of the last and that is: and still will not work' "and " are not special. "

If you want to read all the other you can find them in 'historic archive for the month of November.

Are you ready? Viaaaa ...

begin by recalling that " contra-indications" are the mental habits we have acquired over time. From our parents, school, friends, the circles and the experience we have lived.

The good news is that as we have learned, we can change !

and use them for our benefit ...

We see the first of these 'today: "It will not work anyway'"

This kind of "counter-indication " is one of the most damaging of all, and also the most frequent of all .

Who uses this "counter-indication " always sees the worst of things. Very often believe that any kind of action to take will be 'a failure and therefore do not even try to do.

Do any of these, try to do some action but without the necessary conviction. The result is you will not get 'the desired result. This, makes the " contraindication " and still will not work '"self-fulfilling. In pnl is called "self avverantesi prophecy."

On your journey of life, the more experience and you will not get the results and the stronger and is rooted within you, making it increasingly difficult to replace.

It should start to work .... Now!

"I'm not special"

This "contra-indication " instead leads us to believe that to be successful should possess certain qualities' that we, needless to say, we are lacking. By the perception that there are "mediocre" and that you are not among the "elect" which you can aspire to the success or good things that life offers. To others!

This "contra-indication " provides you with an alibi for the failure volervi take the responsibility 'of your results. Release you from the hassle of having to commit to change your habits of mind with a change results you get.

With this "counter-indication " is easy to find someone to blame or to complain about the successes and missed for all that you did not. Convenient is not it?

As you have read, while traveling through these mental habits that we all have, more or less, we saw how limited our lives.

In the next post I'm going to write about some techniques that can be used to change and replace.

Clearly, my personal suggestion is to Instead of just reading these posts, or ebooks and tools provided in this blog.

I suggest you supplement the reading by participating in live seminars.

And what can help you make the turn eigenstates is called "the hard core - the heart of ' but" (18-19-20 Rome in February 2011).

As I have already 'written in a previous post, I have personally participated in' edition of 2005 and I can say that has contributed in a decisive way to My personal improvement.

You too can achieve the same result as long as you choose to do a lot of practice ...

If you want to receive detailed information, you can write HERE .

I want to leave with a very short step to a story I read on a book by Joe Vitale. Here it is.
A Scottish grandmother used to say, the grandson of four years: "Send a nice thought and one thought will come good 'in its place." Mandane an ugly and another will replace the ugly ' ".

Message: " the secret" is to pay close attention to the creation of thoughts. When you're keen for some good thoughts and they make you happy, then you know you're playing the game that will make you 'win! ".

To your mental,


Salvatore

Friday, November 19, 2010

School Life In The 1970

Training: counter-evidence base.

usual I am updating this blog.

For those who have had the opportunity to read the previous posts
(if you want are available
in 'archive) I'm looking further into certain aspects of the Law 's Attraction and "counter-indications.
In the post I wrote on 16 November of the following contra-indications:" I'm not worth enough "and" I will not be rejected. "

Quest 'I write today of contra-indications " It' s impossible " "The narrow view .

It 's impossible!


The first thing to do when we say that something " It 's impossible " We must make ourselves the question: "It is impossible for those who ?". In fact, there are things possible and impossible things. In both the first and second case, the question " impossible for ?" Helps us to focus on.

Too often there are things possible and things that we do not consider possible for us. Although we realize that the goals we have set in our lives have been made many times by other people, we consider them " impossible for us" that we lack the quality 'of the right knowledge, tools and resources that we have not even others and we have not.

This mental attitude is strongly linked to the contra-indication seen before: "I'm not worth enough . And so it happens that we divide into two separate lists and separate what they "can " from what
" is impossible." This is a work that takes place directly into our subconscious. And since it severely limits us to reject proposals that we receive in advance and that we reject because they are outside of our reach.


About This contra-indication, I want to tell an experience that just yesterday it happened in my life and that is taking me to reflect on myself
and contra-indications that I have self-imposed I have severely limited.


Yesterday I received a call from an old friend and former colleague with whom I shared for about 8 years a number of entrepreneurial projects. It 'was a great experience for personal and professional growth. Of successes but also many failures and a great job behind, with so much motivation and desire to succeed. at all costs!

I remember that period as the most important for me in terms of human and professional. And do not do it again ... but it served to make me what that today.

During these eight years of collaboration with Fernando, the name of this fellow, we met many people. Different social backgrounds but all with a dream. To improve their lives. Along the way, as it happens, everyone takes different paths and choose what is best for themselves. This necessarily involves losing sight.


Just received the phone call yesterday from Fernando, which we lost touch for about 9 years, I became aware of some of our
"former colleagues" with whom he is cooperating.

Some companies have created the turnovers that are now important. Someone He moved to Miami and is the CEO of a company of Real Estate. Someone 'else has founded five companies in various sectors.
Fernando and his company I founded with my W & T - Your Personal Advisor ( www.weddingandtourist.it ).


Personally I have not yet achieved the results I wanted when I left. I do not have a turnover in relation to this important two former colleagues. I moved to 'foreign but I was in Rome (I moved years ago from Sicily). Yet we start from the same point. We worked together, we did the same training and we have fought for the same dream.
Because they have achieved these results and I still do not?


I've been thinking a lot about this question and the answer I found in me is that I my luggage counter-indications that I have self-imposed. I also realized that I was thinking to myself on writing a business plan that I completed last week.

I placed in 'area of \u200b\u200b"revenue forecasts " exactly "what I thought was possible " get. A turnover that comes from my personal experience but, seen through the eyes of an investor, can definitely be unattractive to finance the project.


is how we self-limit. That's how I self-limited. And that's why I wrote of my direct experience.

And you are reflecting on how these contra-indications are limiting your life?

The second counter-claim which I write about today is "The narrow view." People who have this counter-indication, I think there is only one way to achieve a goal. A solution to a problem. A only solution to do a certain thing. But is that really so?

We often think that making money should be graduate and have a job prestige. And this is the ' ONLY way to do it. Someone led us to think that ' ONLY way to make money is to be "dishonest " "enter politics" , " not pay taxes,"
" to have entrature " etc.


But is that really so?

Of course not ... there are many ways to make money also to be dishonest if your conscience allows you. But NOT 'the ONLY WAY to get them ... .

Who thinks there is only one way of doing things, or achieve a goal, closes any opportunity 'presented to us. This precludes the opportunities 'that' universe has given us and that we do not recognize.

I hope this post today, can help you to think about how you act on these counter-claims. Once you have understood and recognized, the real challenge is to change of our mental attitude. And that's us know when we decide to leave or continue to be slaves.

The choice is yours ...


To your mental,


Salvatore

Ps. here on the right side of the blog I have selected for you a series of tools that can help you in your path. There are also free resources to download ...





Tuesday, November 16, 2010

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Training: counter-evidence base.

And you are "nut" or "apricot?"


Here I am with the usual update of this blog.

In the previous post, I wrote two really powerful counter-indications: fear of failure and fear of success.

You have got to think about how these fears affect your life?
Today I want to write some of the more common contra-indications. E ' very likely that you will recognize them as the already proven 'in your life.

1. I'm not worth enough

Maybe you will 'happen during the course of your life will not be able to get the job you want with great intensity'. Maybe you too will 'happen, as has happened to me when I played basketball, not have been chosen by the coach or the coach of your team for the big game.

or there will be 'ever was not / a considered for the audition so that tenevate. The 'love ends, a notice will soon cut the supply of current elettrica.T
ll these experiences repeatedly in the course of your life, make you feel not right with yourself.

I must say that I personally have experienced several times during my research to pursue my dream, the unpleasant experience of warnings that foreshadowed the cut of electricity supply.

phone calls of creditors who had to return the money that I had been provided.
Even more disturbing is the " silence" of loved ones who have asked for help in a time of difficulty 'and look at you as if you were a poor man who tries to pull to strive for a living.

All these emotions, sorely test our self-esteem . The value we place on ourselves. And we take it according to the results we get from 'outside and according to the opinion of others.

And just when we decide to change our lives, our inner voice, reminds us that are not worth enough to get what we want. This, always judging the facts and past situations. It 's a bit how to keep a foot on the ' accelerator and brake at the same time one on .

you ever hear of that? To me, many times.

The second counter-claim on which today I want to emphasize is:

2. I will not be refused

Have you ever experienced this feeling? I will, hundreds of times, and in particular in two moments of my life. The first approach when I was a teenage girl. I did not ever because of the counter-claim. I however, identified a technical and a strategy that would help me to attract 's attention and girls were interested in me.

And do not tell you how because this is my "secret " that worked, at least for me ...
Another occasion on which I tested against this indication is when I started my career as a door-to-seller door in 1992, in Sicily , I sold encyclopedias and multimedia.

that, to be in the floppy disk. Can you imagine in Sicily in '92, lost in the villages to sell multimedia encyclopedias ???!! Say no more.
Quest ' last experience lasted over time during my business career.

And I created several problems. Those involved with sales knows that the main fear is for a seller "waste . I struggled to shake off the counter-claim. Although occasionally crops up outside. But now I know how to handle it ...

The fear of rejection afflicts many people
. The student who is afraid to seek help from the teacher. An employee who wants to ask a colleague to hand or worse, ask for a raise its head. Those who are trying to go out with someone who's interested in and not know the "secret "my strategy ... eheheh ..

This contraindication is induced by fear . No one likes being rejected. Only you can allow it to interfere in your plans. And to learn how to manage it is a special training course and I suggest: " the core - the heart of 'self-esteem .


This course was really helpful to me as the 'I attended in 2005 when I was commercial director of' company that proposed it. I have to say here, I found the key to learn how to manage the emotions related to fear.


It took me a lot because then I was to come into contact with CEOs, managers of enterprises for training high-level (Vodafone, Iveco and many others).

These figures not only in me graduate and I have never worked in multinational companies, who use technical terms and specialized in English that I do not know, I have created many fears and some anxiety too.


made me feel the "weight " not to be 'high. But Then, thanks to deep reflection made during this training course on self-esteem " the core - the heart of 'self-esteem", ( Rome, February 18-19-20), I realized that they were "my" and fears that had no basis in reality '. But I created a lot of difficulty 'and constraints.


the same difficulties' and the limits that I have learned to manage it, I was "I" that I created, and I was "I " which gave him power. And since "I " I created the " I "I could replace them. And so I started working on it day after day. With effort and a lot of practice.


In fact, before any appointment or telephone contact with these figures to interact with, I learned to put into practice a series of visualization exercises that helped me to overcome my fears them.


As I passed I you can overcome even as long as you decide to and be willing and wanting to do a lot of practice . The result is guaranteed only if you think you can handle do.


If any of you want to have information about the course live "The hard core - the heart of 'self-esteem ( Rome, February 18-19-20) you can write HERE


For now, I leave you to reflect on these two contra-indications and my own experience. Maybe there can be a stimulus to overcome them decide once and for all.

way, but you embodies the apricot walnut or model?

On your self-esteem,


Salvatore



Saturday, November 13, 2010

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Training: fear is not a 'friend ...

Hello to all friends and well-matched.

As already 'mentioned in the previous post, I will share with you information relating to Law' s Attraction.

Today I want to write about a topic that unites all human beings: the
fear.


Two of the strongest counter-claims that must learn to deal with are:

  • The fear of failure
  • The fear of success
It just like friends. You read that right. These are the two main fears on which we must work, and many more.

The situations that each of you associated with these situations, are what keep you inside what is called in NLP " comfort zone" (I mentioned a few posts ago) and that prevents you from reaching your goals. Be afraid to get out of your "fences " Although it states the opposite.

The result of this fear is that you allow yourself to escape the improvements and progress we have made, often without having the opportunity 'to see your goals achieved.

E 'of vital importance to understand that bankruptcy is not the end of everything, but as Anthony Robbins says (No. 1 trainer and consultant in the world of personality' important), is a result that you got .
's just a feedback from which you receive an' information which tells you that something is not perfect yet. That there is something to improve.


Watching what we call "failure " from this point of view, you realize that first gave him less emotional power. We provide ourselves a chance 'to change the feedback we received, changing our thoughts, emotions with and its actions that follow.


All this allows us to restructure the meaning, turning it into a resource rather than a block. The so-called " failure "is a natural process of education and learning, which is essential to our success.

This is the thing that most impressed me during all the training I've done over the last 18 years.

Each of us has prejudices towards others and themselves.

How many times have you start a project and then not have it completed? Never obtained a degree, a diet left, a stack of books read in the middle '.

These examples are telling you something?
What is the point to start something, do not devote energy to portal then run? You know it is a waste but continue to do so. Why??


Because that you are aware or not, you fear of success and what it means in your life. New habit of you should take. A new approach of your life. As a new person to know. For each of these should be out of our "comfort zone " and this creates fatigue. We create "pain " effort. "


Fear of success is very common . It seems that almost make you fear the things you say you will. It happens to many people. Fear is the anxiety of anticipating, is that " What if ...."

At this point, I will share with you my fear of success. Probably maybe still is, but the fact that I'm aware, the first step to overcoming it.

How many of you know, I am an entrepreneur in the services for the lifestyle and leisure.

Although things are not yet as I want (I have some ambitious goals), and despite claims to myself and to others that would like to strongly and intensely, maybe I'm self-sabotaging
that still are not present in my life.

I had this intuition exactly 3 or 4 weeks ago. And from there I started my analysis of introspection to understand "what " make me afraid if I had achieved what it claims to want it intensely.

The answer is that I gave my real fear is not thought able to deal with certain situations. Not because it is really capable.

Simply because I have not ever done me no and the 'have taught . And 'that famous " what if ..."
is coming out of my fear ... the fear of failure on one aspect of the situation.

The other answer that came out is that, if realized what I have in mind and say they want,

necessarily have to change my habits . My times,
's setting my day, a lifestyle a bit' more suitable for those who drive a successful business also made up of Board meetings, meeting with banks, investors and all that concerns the world of business.


All that stuff fascinates me, but I'm afraid that might upset my current life.


These were from my unconscious fears " block" for the gifts that
's universe, I'm not delivered.


Another important aspect is that often limit "the way we receive our gifts. We are often tied to the fact that the goals we must reach them ONLY in our present activities', precluding the opportunity and failing to recognize 'that' universe sends us.

This way limiting to expect gifts, means that we can not see them. We fail to grasp the "miracle i" happen to us every day.

This approach to the way of seeing things, prevents us from gathering all the fruits that we receive each day. Whether they're great, whether they are small.

The solution?
Stay open to everything that the 'universe sends us. Not necessarily our success and our gifts have to come from a path that we have established.


Think about it ...

the next update,

Salvatore

Monday, October 18, 2010

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Of life and love

So it's raining . Again.

And I, still under it,
me wet, I
your arms like branches, and your feet sink
,
watering and my thoughts, as
sowing,

that grows free in a land of utopias,
quand 'here
nourishes the soul and nourishes the heart, and rain, rain, filtering through the cracks

and farming roots, and
is collected, and it is thought that the hungry grasp
:
so is life!
and so to love, great is the

chest but the little heart,
like the river to the sea,
that many are accepted,
and lives, even through rain,
and pulses between the sore ribs that
detain him and unworthy
vol burst and wants to scream.

Love!


Poems by Salvatore Carvelli

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is great man.

is great man,
returning in the evening
and lying on the bed, and thinks

is great man, because
illusion,
because tomorrow will be better
and gives strength and dresses
soldier and fight and win and then
s'acclama.

It is the day.

And back in the evening the man
and lying on the bed, and think.

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Spaces


Too many spaces here and watch the sea, desert
that makes me, and I go to my
border
d that are peninsula 'love.
And here
Laws,
I told her this:

Archipelago d 'moments
is this our life, and everything
once
but he often escapes us and we will chase

and more distracted than ever,
d 'love, we do not care.

So I decided I love it!
And the mind goes, flees;
outside these walls. Today
chasing the delusion!
desire to escape, to love,
want to fly.

Today, I love without any distractions,
today write their lips;
because of 'soul,
I opened up the doors and I love it!

Today I tell you I love you!

Poems by Salvatore Carvelli

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

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I think so. Deprived of

"The fact is that until the issues of the world does affect us personally, often ignored, but we are inhabitants of the world and sooner or later than that - some - do so at the expense of many, will ultimately involve everyone. Who can look back and understand this is the one who will see far "

Sunday, October 10, 2010

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hello I write on the blog yet (?/!)

come reports of comments to post very old, even three years ago. Most are spammatiche filth, in some cases people, who knows how and why they decide to resume discussions long gone. I take this opportunity and re-read old posts. I do not pretend to be a writer and I build a mental picture of who might have written them. It turns out a different person from how I perceive myself. Why
I have written so far? To share something about me? But if you do not recognize myself in the words that I wrote something does not work. It 's why my actions are rarrefacendo? Another chapter is closing? That's stripped?
Maybe.
Sometimes I am tempted to click the Delete button Blog.
was so easy, even for real life ...

Sunday, September 26, 2010

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meditation

I just returned from two days of meditation in the mountains. I really needed it because recently I have worked hard and I was very tired, especially in the head.
The world is full of wonderful people but the life we \u200b\u200blead Normally, running concentrated on problems that we create for themselves, prevents us to recognize them.
Sometimes it is necessary to stop and remove the carousel from this sgardo hypnotic.
The first step to do something good and beautiful is to love, themselves and the rest, St. Augustine wrote et quod vis fac diligere. ( Love and do 'what you want!)